14 Fun and Cheap Ways Singles Can Celebrate Valentine's Day
Valentine’s Day may bring up mixed feelings, whether you’re attached or not. Despite being regarded as an excuse to show your affection in a spendy way, it can isolate those who aren’t in a romantic relationship.
Although it’s conventionally considered a couples-only event, there are endless Valentine’s Day ideas for singles to enjoy the holiday, too. Here’s how to spend Valentine’s Day when you’re single without blowing your budget.
1. Netflix and chill
Put on your comfiest loungewear and put on your favorite movie or show. Whether you choose to marathon Sex and the City or stream a flick featuring your Hollywood crush, spending Valentine’s Day in the comfort of your abode is a low-cost way to enjoy time for yourself.
2. Get the royal treatment at a spa
Nothing says “treat yourself” like an indulgent spa day. Throw on that fluffy, complimentary robe and bask in the serenity of the soothing environment. Take full advantage of spa amenities that encourage relaxation, like the steam room and sauna, and test the spa’s skincare products offered in the powder room, if available.
3. Have a Galentine’s dinner
Have a few friends who are also single? Make plans to host a Galentine’s Day dinner — singles only – to celebrate your relationship status. To keep expenses low, consider a potluck-style affair, and free activities, like a clothes swap, or YouTube karaoke with a bottle of champagne.
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4. Get a B.F.F. couples massage
If your B.F.F. is also free on Valentine’s Day — make it a date! Book a couples massage and split the cost (See? Saving money!) Let any tension go as you share a deep tissue, Swedish, or hot stone massage experience with your bestie. After the service, plan on another activity together to wrap-up the day, like thrift shopping or dining at a restaurant that you both enjoy.
5. Take a break from social media
Valentine’s Day can be a tough time for some people. This is a perfect day to go on a social media blackout to focus your energy on self-love and compassion. Although social media can be a practical tool to keep in touch with others, it can also encourage comparisons. If you know you’ll likely compare your Valentine’s Day plans to others’, be kind to yourself by taking a break from your Instagram or Facebook feed.
6. Start a new hobby
While others are spending money on expensive prix fixe menus, spend your extra cash on a new hobby. Whether you’re signing-up for an introductory salsa dancing class or buying supplies to try your hand at painting, starting a new hobby on Valentine’s Day is a rewarding and fun way to spend the day. And if the hobby doesn’t stick, you’ll at least have learned something new about yourself!
7. Sweat it out
Exercise is a great way to blow off steam and doesn’t have to cost a cent. If your local weather allows, you can visit a new park or hiking trail for a brisk run. Not only will you get your heart pumping, but you’ll also explore a new recreational space that you can revisit throughout the year. If you prefer an indoor workout, splurge on a drop-in class at a boutique fitness studio to freshen your workout routine.
8. Bake something yummy
Who said sweet treats are only meant to be given or received on Valentine’s Day. Break the boundaries by making something that’ll satisfy your sweet tooth. Find a decadent recipe online and bake your confection. Afterward, you can indulge in your creation all to yourself or share it with others to spread the love. Plus, this may be the start of a new tradition — regardless of whether you’re attached.
9. Go on a staycation this weekend
Pack your bags and get semi-out of town for Valentine’s Day weekend. To keep costs low, find last-minute deals on Groupon or Airbnb to new cities or towns that are a couple of hours from your home. While you’re there, do as the locals do, like visiting the local museum or tourist attraction. This getaway lets you recharge and discover new places that are just a quick commute away.
10. Pet-sit for friends
If your friends have travel plans of their own, offer to watch their fur babies while they’re gone. Not only do you get a free opportunity to cuddle with a fluffball (or two), but you’ll also be doing something meaningful that your friend will appreciate. If none of your friends need help with their pets, consider signing up for a pet-sitting service, like Rover, to find others who need help with their pets and make money on the side.
11. Volunteer your time
Pets aren’t the only ones who could use your care. Local nonprofit organizations always need a helping hand. If you’re wondering how to spend Valentine’s day while single, consider donating your time to others in need of a smile, like serving food to the homeless or offering support at an elderly care facility.
12. Laugh it up at a comedy show
Nothing helps lighten the mood of a solo Valentine’s Day, like a hearty laugh. Buy tickets to a comedy show as a way to spend the holiday out of your home. If comedy shows aren’t appealing to you, go to a local concert instead!
13. Plan an elaborate picnic with a good book
There’s nothing wrong with going the whole nine-yards for yourself. Pack a fancy picnic basket of your favorite wine, international cheeses and any other goodies you love snacking on. Leave the plastic utensils and cups at home — this is a celebration! Use your best silverware and dishware and trek over to your favorite park with a book in-hand. If the weather isn’t forgiving in your area, reinvent your picnic basket into a lavish charcuterie spread for an indoor celebration for one.
14. Send thoughtful messages to the people you love
Another heartfelt way to spend Valentine’s Day is by reaching out to the special people in your life. When was the last time you sent your parents a text? How about your long-time friend? Life can get hectic, but Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to send a thoughtful message to your loved ones. The spontaneous gesture will surely be appreciated and reinforce these precious bonds.