Finding the “perfect” Valentine’s Day gift can feel like a lot of pressure, regardless of who you choose to celebrate with. If you want to go above and beyond to show your appreciation for your partner, this list of Valentine’s Day ideas can help you find a present that’s meaningful.

1. Take a class together

Learning a new skill or hobby together is a great way to spend quality time with your partner. Not only does a class environment encourage an open, and judgment-free experience, but the experiences you share during the class can lead to silly and enriching memories that you both can look back on.

An activity-based class, like an Italian cooking workshop or kickboxing class, can keep the vibe lighthearted and energetic.

2. Couples spa day

Shed the stress of the work week with a relaxing couple’s massage or facial this Valentine’s Day. Although the holiday might send prices surging, you may find a holiday deal at your local spa to make the experience worthwhile.

If available, enjoy each other’s company in plush robes, soothing lighting and the romantic quietude of the spa’s other amenities.

3. Weighted blanket

A weighted blanket encourages a calming, and restful night’s sleep. Some also use weighted blankets as a therapeutic way to doze off quickly, due to its gentle pressure on the body. Gifting your partner a weighted blanket is like giving them a comforting, cozy hug every night, which is a particularly sweet sentiment for those in long-distance relationships.

4. Monthly subscription

Monthly subscriptions can be a practical and thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift for your significant other. Regardless of their interests, you can find a monthly subscription service that lets them enjoy their hobby throughout the year.

For example, if they’re a moviephile, AMC’s Stubs A-List membership gives them access to three movies a week with no blackout dates, or if they’re a coffee snob, a coffee subscription makes sure they always have fresh grinds for a morning pour-over.

5. Cheese and Wine

If your partner loves a good red and artisan cheese spreads, but you’d rather not pay for a full subscription, consider a cheese and wine gift box. Hand-pick three or four different cheeses from around the world, or make it a themed affair with an assortment of French cheeses. Then, select a bottle of wine that you know your partner will enjoy.

6. Plan a vacation

This Valentine’s Day gift idea takes a bit more planning than any other option on the list, but it’s packed with fond memories spent together. Depending on your budget, coordinate a vacation just outside of town for a weekend getaway, or a longer excursion, if you prefer.

Whichever destination you choose, don’t forget to consider activities and dining spots your significant other will love.

7. Make a time capsule

Creating a time capsule of your relationship on Valentine’s Day is a sentimental way to reminisce about your past together. Include photos, old love notes, new love letters to each other, and tokens from dates that remind you of your partner. Close the capsule and agree on a number of years you’ll wait before opening it again, together.

8. Take on a chore

Acts of service are a meaningful way to show your support and caring toward your partner or spouse. If you know they loathe doing laundry, offer to pick-up this responsibility. You can also take this idea to the next level by offering to pay for professional laundry service so you and your partner can spend more quality time together during the holiday.

9. Help pay down debt

If you know your partner is bogged down with debt — whether student loan debt or credit card debt — consider offering cash to help them pay down their debt faster. Although it doesn’t seem like very romantic gesture, it’s an impactful Valentine’s Day gift that will move them forward toward their debt-free goal.

10. Stay in

With the inflated prices for Valentine’s Day prix fixe menus, long waits to get seated, and overall congestion at fine dining restaurants, staying in is a relaxing and peaceful alternative. But just because you’re spending time at home on Valentine’s Day, it doesn’t mean the night can’t be memorable.

Coordinate a fancy, themed dinner with your partner and plan specific at-home activities ahead of time to make it feel unique. You can have a movie, board games, do a crafty project, or get creative with pillow forts.

Although lavish Valentine’s Day ideas and gifts are an appreciated gesture, it’s the memories and connection you form or reinforce with your significant other that leaves a lasting impression.

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